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		<title>By: Natalie Christie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Natalie Christie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 04:01:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great point Fiona - The Artist&#039;s Way is a valuable tool for getting in touch with the way we talk to ourselves. It&#039;s interesting that you mention you were brought up to think life&#039;s not meant to be easy - so much of what we struggle with is about approaches we have defined unconsciously or that are defined for us by our parents or education...spending time with our inner voice can literally speak volumes about what we are presuming instead of actively choosing.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And your creative side is absolutely your best weapon in difficult times. I would even argue that it the people and business willing to be creative, think laterally and from different perspectives are the only ones who can thrive in such circumstances.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great point Fiona &#8211; The Artist&#39;s Way is a valuable tool for getting in touch with the way we talk to ourselves. It&#39;s interesting that you mention you were brought up to think life&#39;s not meant to be easy &#8211; so much of what we struggle with is about approaches we have defined unconsciously or that are defined for us by our parents or education&#8230;spending time with our inner voice can literally speak volumes about what we are presuming instead of actively choosing.</p>
<p>And your creative side is absolutely your best weapon in difficult times. I would even argue that it the people and business willing to be creative, think laterally and from different perspectives are the only ones who can thrive in such circumstances.</p>
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		<title>By: Natalie Christie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Natalie Christie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 21:01:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great point Fiona - The Artist&#039;s Way is a valuable tool for getting in touch with the way we talk to ourselves. It&#039;s interesting that you mention you were brought up to think life&#039;s not meant to be easy - so much of what we struggle with is about approaches we have defined unconsciously or that are defined for us by our parents or education...spending time with our inner voice can literally speak volumes about what we are presuming instead of actively choosing.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And your creative side is absolutely your best weapon in difficult times. I would even argue that it the people and business willing to be creative, think laterally and from different perspectives are the only ones who can thrive in such circumstances.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great point Fiona &#8211; The Artist&#39;s Way is a valuable tool for getting in touch with the way we talk to ourselves. It&#39;s interesting that you mention you were brought up to think life&#39;s not meant to be easy &#8211; so much of what we struggle with is about approaches we have defined unconsciously or that are defined for us by our parents or education&#8230;spending time with our inner voice can literally speak volumes about what we are presuming instead of actively choosing.</p>
<p>And your creative side is absolutely your best weapon in difficult times. I would even argue that it the people and business willing to be creative, think laterally and from different perspectives are the only ones who can thrive in such circumstances.</p>
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		<title>By: Charlotte Francis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Charlotte Francis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 05:08:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree, Fiona, that freelancing and following your dream can be really tough. It can seem like a lot of effort for not much return. Sometimes, when I hit brick walls, I wonder if it&#039;s because, deep down, I think I can&#039;t do it or that it&#039;s meant to be difficult! Don&#039;t know about you, but I was brought up to think life is not meant to be easy...

So, I am currently watching my self-talk and expectations - am I perpetuating the struggle, do I value what I do, do I believe in myself? To help me on my way, I have gone back to an excellent book,The Artist&#039;s Way, which I read and worked through some years ago. It&#039;s helpful in weeding out those nagging voices in the head. 

I think it&#039;s a good idea to nurture the creative side of things when the going gets tough and the economy nosedives!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree, Fiona, that freelancing and following your dream can be really tough. It can seem like a lot of effort for not much return. Sometimes, when I hit brick walls, I wonder if it&#8217;s because, deep down, I think I can&#8217;t do it or that it&#8217;s meant to be difficult! Don&#8217;t know about you, but I was brought up to think life is not meant to be easy&#8230;</p>
<p>So, I am currently watching my self-talk and expectations &#8211; am I perpetuating the struggle, do I value what I do, do I believe in myself? To help me on my way, I have gone back to an excellent book,The Artist&#8217;s Way, which I read and worked through some years ago. It&#8217;s helpful in weeding out those nagging voices in the head. </p>
<p>I think it&#8217;s a good idea to nurture the creative side of things when the going gets tough and the economy nosedives!</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 06:22:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Fiona Marsden</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fiona Marsden</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 06:01:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Natalie

I found your blog via someone else&#039;s tweet. You raise some interesting topics :-)

Two years ago I quit a well-paying job to follow my own star (maaan) and work as a freelance writer. I was driven partly by a motivation to work for myself, but also to spend my days doing work that really meant something to me. 

I knew it would be hard, but in all honesty, it&#039;s been harder than I thought. For every time when something great happens (e.g. I get a new commission from a magazine editor, or see one of my stories on print) there are many, many more times when the phone doesn&#039;t ring, emails don&#039;t arrive and editors turn down my pitches - or worse - ignore them completely. 

I&#039;m beginning to understand how actors must feel when they&#039;re rejected at auditions - but keep turning up, time after time, because they want to do something they truly love. You&#039;re right: being true to yourself is bloody hard going!

Just as well I&#039;m the tenacious type ...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Natalie</p>
<p>I found your blog via someone else&#8217;s tweet. You raise some interesting topics <img src='http://thetinysoprano.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Two years ago I quit a well-paying job to follow my own star (maaan) and work as a freelance writer. I was driven partly by a motivation to work for myself, but also to spend my days doing work that really meant something to me. </p>
<p>I knew it would be hard, but in all honesty, it&#8217;s been harder than I thought. For every time when something great happens (e.g. I get a new commission from a magazine editor, or see one of my stories on print) there are many, many more times when the phone doesn&#8217;t ring, emails don&#8217;t arrive and editors turn down my pitches &#8211; or worse &#8211; ignore them completely. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m beginning to understand how actors must feel when they&#8217;re rejected at auditions &#8211; but keep turning up, time after time, because they want to do something they truly love. You&#8217;re right: being true to yourself is bloody hard going!</p>
<p>Just as well I&#8217;m the tenacious type &#8230;</p>
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